By Syed Dur Rahman
A few days ago, I was traveling through the bustling streets of a city, riding my bike as the world around me unfolded in a chaotic symphony. The moment I crossed the city limits, I was immediately greeted by the incessant blaring of car horns. The noise was overwhelming, a constant reminder of the fast-paced, mechanical pulse of city life. The roads were packed with vehicles, and despite the traffic lights dutifully blinking, it seemed as though no one bothered to follow their instructions.
It was as if the lights were nothing more than an afterthought in a world where everyone was so focused on their own journey, their own destination. Drivers were fixated on their paths, eyes locked ahead, fingers tapping impatiently on their steering wheels, minds oblivious to anything outside their own little bubble. In that moment, I saw no camaraderie, no sense of shared experience—only individualism, where each person was engrossed in their own race. There was no patience for others, no thought to yield. Each person was a solitary competitor in this arena of asphalt and steel.
The scene before me felt eerily familiar, almost Darwinian in nature—a living manifestation of the “survival of the fittest.” It was a race, not for survival in the literal sense, but for dominance on the road, for getting ahead, for cutting through the swarm of vehicles in an unspoken competition. A brief pause at a traffic light revealed a collective impatience. Cars crept forward before the light turned green, itching to reclaim the road. There was no sense of shared order or courtesy, only an unrelenting need to move faster, to push forward.
As I navigated this urban jungle, I began to imagine the scene from a higher perspective. I mentally lifted myself above the ground, viewing the city as though I were looking down from a bird’s-eye view. From up there, the roads and cars became mere lines and dots, like ants scurrying across a vast surface. The people, now so small from my imagined vantage point, were like tiny workers in a massive, disorganized machine, all moving but with no clear coordination.
From this perspective, it struck me that no one seemed to care about their neighbor. The cars, once symbols of human progress, now resembled isolated cells in a sprawling system, each one focused solely on its own trajectory. There was no thought given to the others on the road, no acknowledgment of their existence beyond the immediate need to avoid collision. People honked, swerved, cut each other off, and pressed on with a singular determination. It felt as though they had forgotten where they were going, caught in the monotony of simply trying to move forward faster than the person next to them. The path itself was forgotten in this rush. I imagined the city not as a place of collaboration or community, but as a battlefield, where everyone was fighting their own private war. There were no alliances here, only competitors. And in this Darwinian world, it wasn’t the strongest or the smartest that survived, but the fastest—the ones who could cut through traffic, make the quickest moves, and pay the least attention to anything else. I realized that, for many, driving had become a metaphor for life itself: a race where the focus was not on the journey, but on how quickly you could reach the next destination.As I returned from my imagined aerial view, back to the reality of the streets, the chaotic scene before me no longer felt like mere traffic. It was a reflection of a broader truth about how disconnected we’ve become in our pursuit of individual goals. It was as though we had collectively lost our way, focused so intently on the race that we’d forgotten where we were headed or why we were even in it to begin with.
The horns continued to blare, the cars kept moving, and the competition raged on. But I couldn’t help but wonder: when did we forget to care for those around us? When did we become so lost in our own paths that we stopped noticing the people traveling beside us?
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